This friend of mine

Well.... Here's a funny story of this friend of mine. I'm not going to share out who he is BUT those who are close to both him and/or me will somehow figure out a you read your way down.

How should I start.... Hmm.... Firstly, friends to me is not just somebody out there who I greet them and wish them on their birthdays or just pretty know on the surface. I do not believe in best friends. However close friend is the one im going with.

Now back to this friend of mine. I can't recall how long have I known him... And yeah... It's a guy.... To me, time doesn't matter at all. The time frame friends know each other does not prove a thing at all. It's just how close you were during that short period of time.

He is special in his way. Who's not? God create every single being in his/her/it 's own way. None is identical to another. None is to posses the same personality and characters as another wholly. He is a friend which I think the most special one. In his own way of course. Not weird, odd or unusual, just special.

He is one of the person who fights with me a lot. We share some common and whole lot of difference! Its like mars meets earth. It's more like quarreling with him each and everytime a conversation begins. Why? Haha. I admit it's my fault of triggering his anger hormones to fill up his body an d almost made it burst all the time. I laugh it off but he will be a volcano that is about to explode! Well.... I don't really care. Coz I know that he might e an erupting volcano this minute and be okay the next. That's one of the quality that he posses without realizing.

I always catch his weakness. Rarely touch on his glorious side. But who don't? Tell me.... I do that to everyone. But this cute friend of mine is a lil to sensitive over things and too many weaknesses to overcome. Time after time I instill friendship in his thick skull telling him I'm telling you this because I care and I want you to change! Wouldn't it be fake if he acts like he don't mind your actions and your character in front of you and backstab you behind your back? I mean I will do that sometimes especially you are a person of no value to me or I barely know you as I have no rights to pass comments. Bro, you have to calm yourself down and listen more. You have to admit one thing. You've been pampered you're whole life and now.... Only now you are experiencing a bit of work at home. No big deal seriously. Everyone has been doing that for a long time and it's just a starting point for you. It's time for you to take the responsibility and show some love to you're family. They deserve it! There are times where obstacles popped out and you must face it yourself or at least try to encounter the problem before pushing it away to someone else and yes I'm talking about your parents. I know they'll do anything for you. They'll risk it all if they have to. But don't take for granted. They won't be here the rest of your life. They'll need you to take care of them at a point when they are weak and helpless. Ergo, no one is perfect. Even I can't do it by myself. Learn now when time is on your side. Feel the warmness of a smile on someone else's face rather a face of "what?? Again??" tell others, send out a message to the world saying " I can do it! I can do it myself and think of everyone else before me".

Another thing is, think! THINK!!! You're a grown man. A man of knowledge and perseverance. Think! Wisdom does not come by yes I know. But you'll have to try. As always, think. God gave us a remarkable mind that can solve from the simplest task to the most complicated one. You seriously have to listen, analyze which is think then only act. At many situations, at many times you failed to do something or even hurt others' feelings as you don't think before you act. I know it's not the same for everyone. But this is a matter of practice. You can do it. You will figure it out sometime. But I seriously hope you'll learn it before you step out of you're comfort zone. We're always here for you accepting your weaknesses bit of course tagged along with some criticism and laughter! But the world outside isn't always like this. It might get you backstab or even getting yourself fired. So whenever you are facing an obstacle, trouble, or even in a decent conversation, think. Think again and again. Its okay if you react slower but correct. No one is to be blamed by replying slow but all to curse if you replied wrongly.

This post isn't a post to brag how good I am or how excellent I am in advising others. It's just a random post about this friend of mine who I encounter so much that I so call "hate" him in The eyes of others. I dont hate him. If I do, I wouldn't even pass a single comment and leave the person as it is as it doesn't concerns me at all. You... YES YOU!!!! Break your tides and untie knots that you have with me and remind yourself, People who comment of you is because they cared not just to humiliate you or to criticize you!! Open up your eyes and look around. Not many close friends around. They're hard to come by. Treasure them. Complain lesser and appreciate more!=)