Have you encountered problems that you can't solve especially when you are in it? But do you realize that you can actually solve it when you are sober? We use to tell others comforting words when others are facing troubles. But we never get to solve our own. It's always easy to solve problems for others than to solve ours.
To me, we should not hold back in helping others by listening and saying comforting words to calm oneself down. It's hard when comes to solving our own problems and that's when other people to come and fill us up.
Everyone has their own problems, big or small. Some may show them, some may not. Some may rage out at that certain time, some might just stumble on it forever. God never promise us good and smooth road ahead of us. In fact throughout my blog you'll see the bittersweet of my life. It's only natural that our life is laid in this matter. Facing and encountering problems is never an easy task. That's when other people come in to brighten up the dull piece of art hanging in our hearts. Sometimes, hearing out a person's heart is good enough even if we can't solve much. When a person pour out, that person would tend to feel relaxed and calmed. That's when he/she can have a clear mind to think of a solution rather than going through the problem with a hard cold heart.
You may not realize the power of speaking. Our mouth is a wonderful instrument created by God for us to communicate. With just talking, we can pour out our heart felt feelings, and by just speaking to another, one will understand and think.
Family members, Friends... They don't come by easily. Talk to them. Let them know what you feel in order for them to understand you. And you should also play the part of listening and understanding others. If listening and understanding is mutual, problems and conflicts can be solved faster and easier.
love, remmygoh
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Thursday, August 11, 2011
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
An unsatisfied human.
Humans, creation of God. Together, mankind is formed. What God provides are abundant. What humans want is way beyond the word "abundant". Greed is a unending "want" in human beings. Humans want everything, literally!
Let's scope it down to me. There are a lot of things in this world that is yet to fulfill and yet to achieve. But I just could not accept the fact that I can't. I really do agree that greed plays a darn important role in my life even with a good teaching, Christian family background. I still have that thirst to "want" more. There's so much in life that I want to achieve and if possible I "want" it now itself. That's a bit, in fact too much to ask. I'm hopping things would turn out the way I wanted-a perfect life without stress and failures, things that I "want" would be fulfilled without cracking my head of how to get it or keep on pondering when I could get it.
It's a nuisance come to think of it. Silly as a human's mind, greedy as a wolf's heart to want every single "perfect" thing in life. Now comes the ugly truth. Nothing comes easy. When you have something, you tend to lose the other. Sometimes, you get nothing. Life puzzled by God is never wrong. But questions above our mind will always question and blame God for it. I always ask myself, or good to say ask God why did he create us to let us suffer on earth for Adam & Eve's fault? I mean you already knows what will happen next, why you still let us make a choice? See..... Humans and their silly little minds thinking so hard for stupid questions like this. It's pathetic, but so true. Everyone questions. Everyone ponders. Everyone doubt. That's why creation and inventions happened. Why a single 1+2 can be complicated to alphabets and symbols. Anyways, why numbers are created in the first place. Questions are good. It serves it purpose but questioning God kills. So... So.... Am I still going to question? Yes! Definitely. One man's dreams and wants cant come true without a question. But always bare in mind that not everything comes our way. We must not dwell in what we don't have but look forward to what we can achieve.
-a story told to remind myself and you not to be so unsatisfied with life.- coz I'm barely coping with it.... Sigh~
love, remmygoh
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Let's scope it down to me. There are a lot of things in this world that is yet to fulfill and yet to achieve. But I just could not accept the fact that I can't. I really do agree that greed plays a darn important role in my life even with a good teaching, Christian family background. I still have that thirst to "want" more. There's so much in life that I want to achieve and if possible I "want" it now itself. That's a bit, in fact too much to ask. I'm hopping things would turn out the way I wanted-a perfect life without stress and failures, things that I "want" would be fulfilled without cracking my head of how to get it or keep on pondering when I could get it.
It's a nuisance come to think of it. Silly as a human's mind, greedy as a wolf's heart to want every single "perfect" thing in life. Now comes the ugly truth. Nothing comes easy. When you have something, you tend to lose the other. Sometimes, you get nothing. Life puzzled by God is never wrong. But questions above our mind will always question and blame God for it. I always ask myself, or good to say ask God why did he create us to let us suffer on earth for Adam & Eve's fault? I mean you already knows what will happen next, why you still let us make a choice? See..... Humans and their silly little minds thinking so hard for stupid questions like this. It's pathetic, but so true. Everyone questions. Everyone ponders. Everyone doubt. That's why creation and inventions happened. Why a single 1+2 can be complicated to alphabets and symbols. Anyways, why numbers are created in the first place. Questions are good. It serves it purpose but questioning God kills. So... So.... Am I still going to question? Yes! Definitely. One man's dreams and wants cant come true without a question. But always bare in mind that not everything comes our way. We must not dwell in what we don't have but look forward to what we can achieve.
-a story told to remind myself and you not to be so unsatisfied with life.- coz I'm barely coping with it.... Sigh~
love, remmygoh
http://facebook.com/remmygoh
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Dissapointing Hardwork.
2nd Aug
Sigh..... It's a real failure today. I woke up early this morning, having a big plan ahead of me. Preparing breakfast for my close friends in class. It's a privilege for me to prepare breakfast fir them as I always eat theirs. Potato is supposed to be in the menu. But since there's no potatoes in the fridge and I'm damn tired after fetching Jerome round and round town for his University stuff a day earlier, I've decided to make Half-boiled eggs on Toasted Bread. I've suggested to me in class. She's Surprisingly happy and said yes to anything. But through my observation, she likes it. So there, I've woke up and start preparing. I'm not really good in the kitchen. I'll always take a long time to finish stuff. I made the half boiled eggs twice- once to test(failed) then the second time(success). Proceed... Bath quickly, feed the monster and Snowpuff and rush off to school since mum is tagging along. I told her ill be late if I send her to school before arriving mine. So I've suggested that Jerome to fetch her with the other car. Surprisingly she nodded and agreed.
Went to school with my heavy bags and books. Arrived and rush quickly to the class to settle my stuff before I go for the daily assembly. Was very excited for their reaction when they see what I've brought for them. Recess came and so is our breakfast. Opened up and they seemed so surprise and happy. Broke the eggs onto the bread and feast. The eggs was quite nice with it's orangey yoke. My grandma said its good for the brain as it is organic eggs from the farm. They ate and came S'ng to the table to give his salad to us as promised a day ago. We ate both and YW ate too. The salad contain all her enemies -veg, onions, mayonese. It's a wonder that she actually finished it. So then I asked her whats with her facial expression when I said " S'ng, your Salad is very successful coz even YW is eating it" then she told me "I struggled through all of them!!!", as she gave the Tupperware a shook to emphasize it was the "WHOLE" thing. WHOLE means including the eggs. I was a bit pissed at that time. I was trying to salvage the situation and said "what you like then?, I'll prepare for you next time". She quickly responded "no, I don't want! I'll bring my own food next time". That.... Wow!!!! It's like a big rock dropped from the sky and hit me. No appreciation felt and yet a unacceptable comment. Then VV added. Yeah... It's not that nice. Next time don't bring. It is actually an advice but somehow I couldn't except it at that moment. I was speechless since then and regretted bringing breakfast. Before we head to our cars after school ends, MS came in to the class and stepped on me a few times after getting up from that gait rock earlier in by saying "oh! What??!! You ate "COLD HALF BOILED EGGS???!!!" you are going to get a stomach ache!" I can't take it no more and walked away. I don't want to fall more and more after more and more comments from other parties.
Felt.....
Stupid•regret•sorry•humiliated•angry.
love, remmygoh
http://facebook.com/remmygoh
Sigh..... It's a real failure today. I woke up early this morning, having a big plan ahead of me. Preparing breakfast for my close friends in class. It's a privilege for me to prepare breakfast fir them as I always eat theirs. Potato is supposed to be in the menu. But since there's no potatoes in the fridge and I'm damn tired after fetching Jerome round and round town for his University stuff a day earlier, I've decided to make Half-boiled eggs on Toasted Bread. I've suggested to me in class. She's Surprisingly happy and said yes to anything. But through my observation, she likes it. So there, I've woke up and start preparing. I'm not really good in the kitchen. I'll always take a long time to finish stuff. I made the half boiled eggs twice- once to test(failed) then the second time(success). Proceed... Bath quickly, feed the monster and Snowpuff and rush off to school since mum is tagging along. I told her ill be late if I send her to school before arriving mine. So I've suggested that Jerome to fetch her with the other car. Surprisingly she nodded and agreed.
Went to school with my heavy bags and books. Arrived and rush quickly to the class to settle my stuff before I go for the daily assembly. Was very excited for their reaction when they see what I've brought for them. Recess came and so is our breakfast. Opened up and they seemed so surprise and happy. Broke the eggs onto the bread and feast. The eggs was quite nice with it's orangey yoke. My grandma said its good for the brain as it is organic eggs from the farm. They ate and came S'ng to the table to give his salad to us as promised a day ago. We ate both and YW ate too. The salad contain all her enemies -veg, onions, mayonese. It's a wonder that she actually finished it. So then I asked her whats with her facial expression when I said " S'ng, your Salad is very successful coz even YW is eating it" then she told me "I struggled through all of them!!!", as she gave the Tupperware a shook to emphasize it was the "WHOLE" thing. WHOLE means including the eggs. I was a bit pissed at that time. I was trying to salvage the situation and said "what you like then?, I'll prepare for you next time". She quickly responded "no, I don't want! I'll bring my own food next time". That.... Wow!!!! It's like a big rock dropped from the sky and hit me. No appreciation felt and yet a unacceptable comment. Then VV added. Yeah... It's not that nice. Next time don't bring. It is actually an advice but somehow I couldn't except it at that moment. I was speechless since then and regretted bringing breakfast. Before we head to our cars after school ends, MS came in to the class and stepped on me a few times after getting up from that gait rock earlier in by saying "oh! What??!! You ate "COLD HALF BOILED EGGS???!!!" you are going to get a stomach ache!" I can't take it no more and walked away. I don't want to fall more and more after more and more comments from other parties.
Felt.....
Stupid•regret•sorry•humiliated•angry.
love, remmygoh
http://facebook.com/remmygoh
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