Listen, Speak.

Have you encountered problems that you can't solve especially when you are in it? But do you realize that you can actually solve it when you are sober? We use to tell others comforting words when others are facing troubles. But we never get to solve our own. It's always easy to solve problems for others than to solve ours.

To me, we should not hold back in helping others by listening and saying comforting words to calm oneself down. It's hard when comes to solving our own problems and that's when other people to come and fill us up.

Everyone has their own problems, big or small. Some may show them, some may not. Some may rage out at that certain time, some might just stumble on it forever. God never promise us good and smooth road ahead of us. In fact throughout my blog you'll see the bittersweet of my life. It's only natural that our life is laid in this matter. Facing and encountering problems is never an easy task. That's when other people come in to brighten up the dull piece of art hanging in our hearts. Sometimes, hearing out a person's heart is good enough even if we can't solve much. When a person pour out, that person would tend to feel relaxed and calmed. That's when he/she can have a clear mind to think of a solution rather than going through the problem with a hard cold heart.

You may not realize the power of speaking. Our mouth is a wonderful instrument created by God for us to communicate. With just talking, we can pour out our heart felt feelings, and by just speaking to another, one will understand and think.

Family members, Friends... They don't come by easily. Talk to them. Let them know what you feel in order for them to understand you. And you should also play the part of listening and understanding others. If listening and understanding is mutual, problems and conflicts can be solved faster and easier.


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