Being Fair.

What is fair to you?? is fair getting what others get or getting what you want out of what you've done?? Well... to most people it's getting what others get. It's most likely out of comparison... We felt unfair because we compare with others. HOW?? simple... one gets more you get lesser... worse come to worst... one get everything, you get NONE. It's very bad to compare... as no GOD create 2 beings of the same kind, same character, from head to toe... It's scary right if one day you see another you on the street right??

     Why are we always craving for what's fair and what's not? Why not we just sit down and think what should I do in order to get what's FAIR for me?? nothing in this world comes free... things, shelter, food... you name it....

    Today, one of my friend complained to me what's not fair in his family..(not giving details tho~) well, It's not healthy to complain about this especially in a household. What's fair and what's not?? BULLSHIT! in a family, everything is done out of love! if you wanna talk about fair, why don't you see your mum pushing the heaviest duty of pregnancy and your dad pushing all the hardwork and work to your mum?? It's as simple as that... Once LOVE come into the picture.. no body bother what's fair... It doesn't even appear in their mind at all. everything said and done is out of LOVE!!
 
  I always have his in mind, Family members are GOD ordained. nobody can ever tell that the formation of the family is wrong or saying that that family should not be together... who would ever know anything and EVERYTHING better than HIM??? If you are saying that your mum cast you out of the family which she never did, that's you're FAULT!!! No mothers give birth to a child that she had bared for 9 months just to cast him/her out... (in general) So stop complaining what's not fair to you!!!! Go home and give your parents a hug or just simply talk to them and enjoy every moment you have with them. Its never too late... It's never too early too! you will not realise speaking to them more can move your relationship closer as you were meant for each other.You are meant to be what people call a  F  A  M  I  L  Y  !!

love, remmygoh